Preferred interlocutors in terms of sexuality
Boys %
Mother
4.0
Father
6.5
Siblings
0.8
Siblings and relatives
62.6
Other relatives
14.6
Total
100
Source: UNICEF, Survey on early pregnancy, Brazzaville, 1996.
Girls%
13.1
1.5
2.3
60.3
15.0
100
Siblings are mostly preferred among boys (62.6%) as well as girls (60.3%) followed by other
relatives (respectively 14.6% and 15.0%) before mothers who are mostly preferred by girls
(13.1%) against 4.0% in boys. As regards to persons in whom one can confide in cases of
intimate problem, the same survey shows more preference for friends (13.3%) among boys,
against 16.0% among girls, before father (12.9%) among boys (20.3%) and (25.4%) for girls.
In reality, friends take central stage in terms of channels of information on sexuality. The
shame felt vis-à-vis one’s mother and sisters pushes towards friends from school or from the
neighbourhood, especially when they are warmer and affectionate. Thus, the comprehensive
survey of girl mothers revealed other channels of information, as follows:
Table 41: Other information channels
Advisers
Frequencies
Neighbourhood friends
35
School friends
27
Close female relative
13
School friends
8
Yourself by reading
4
Mother
4
Mother- Child Health Service
3
Church
1
Media
1
All
97
Source: UNICEF, Survey of early pregnancy, Brazzaville, 1996.
%
36.1
27.8
13.4
8.3
4.1
4.1
3.1
1.0
1.0
100.0
The 2006 survey on the education of girls also revealed that key pupils and students’ advisers
in terms of puberty are firstly the mother (50.6% of votes), followed by school and
neighbourhood friends ( 17.0%) and by both parents (13.3%). The father intervenes only at
70%, while the other relatives precede (8.8%); school comes before the last position with
2.0% of responses.
In any case, preference is established based on the closeness and intimacy that the girl built
with the mother, sister, other female relative or friend. In the absence of formal, structured
channel of information and training (for over twenty years, school programmes have
abandoned sex education) it is not sure that these channels are reliable. The information is
transmitted through word of mouth. Written materials are non-existent and the taboo is strong
enough to block the establishment of reliable and mandatory networks (school, media).
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